August 17, 2025
“It’s a pass”, the banker said.
F*ck!!! That’s the fourth rejection in a row.

I really thought this was the one. They were the most logical buyer.
Desperation. I’m sure they smelt it. I certainly felt it.
We were in the fight of our lives. Our largest shareholder was trying to take over the company.
We had less than six months of runway. Plan A? Raise money and buy them out. Plan B? Sell the company.
We hired a banker and started pitching possible buyers.
But all we got was a bunch of “no’s” and a few crappy offers.
Shareholder dispute. Performance dipping. Running out of money.
I don’t blame them for passing.
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The best companies don’t sell, they get bought.
With time running out, we scrambled to raise enough money to buy out that shareholder. It came down to the wire, but we hit the buzzer beater and pulled it off.
Without the constant distraction, performance skyrocketed. Revenue doubled in eighteen months.
Three years later we accepted an offer at ten times the valuation.
This time, we didn’t’ sell. We got bought.
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The first time around, we were selling the company at the wrong time. Most everything about our approach was off. We had no leverage.
The second time around we got it right. But still, there are things I’d do differently. This stuff isn’t easy!
That’s why selling your company is one of the hottest topics inside Highland. There’s not a lot of great advice out there.
So I found a guy who knows more about the subject than most people on the planet. Dave Sobota.
He’s run M&A at three giants: Google, Instacart, and now GoFundMe. And has been the buyer on hundreds of deals, including:
Youtube (bought by Google for $1.65 billion)
Waze (bought by Google for $1.3 billion).
Casper (bought by Instacart for $350 million)
Fun fact: Youtube is estimated to be worth around $550 billion today. That’s a 33,233% return on investment. Nice work Dave!
So I asked Dave to cross the table, put his founder’s hat on, and answer one question:
What advice would you give founders about selling their company?
Here’s a great clip from the Highland Fireside talk, with highlights below:
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I. Spot serious buyers early
Building relationships w/ potential acquirers is good (especially strategics)
But don’t overshare or waste time with too many, too early
Directly ask questions about their intent if they reach out
Be skeptical if the corp dev person gives vague answers
Avoid random calls from low level associates at PE firms
II. Be smart about timing
Avoid selling with low momentum (a local minimum)
Consider selling when you have wind at your back (local maximum)
Had a banner year, landed a whale, launched a killer product, etc.
Consider testing the M&A market during a fundraising round
Gauge interest w/out the stigma of a failed sale if it doesn’t pan out
III. Don’t avoid valuation discussion
Valuation is a top reason deals fall apart
It’s OK to talk about your valuation number early on
Risk is low that corp dev team would start with a higher offer
Anchor them up and negotiate from there. Even if it doesn’t happen right away.
Consider using AI to get an objective take on your value to bridge the gap
IV. Approach earn outs with caution
Earn outs are “seldom earned but often litigated”
You’ll lose significant control over your company post-acquisition
And market conditions could (and often do) change
Both of these things make earn out targets harder to hit
Advocate for tiered payouts; avoid “all or nothing” structures
V. Prioritize non-financial terms
Of course valuation is important… but so are the other terms.
Push for a fully fleshed-out term sheet upfront
Understand what autonomy and control you will retain
Clarify risk allocation terms like escrows and indemnities
Ask for defined responsibilities of your role moving forward
VI. Build trust through transparency
Almost any problem can be solved with good discussion
Avoid surprises late in the diligence process
Proactively disclose any potential issues or “dirty laundry”
Ensure the buyer understands and accepts the challenge upfront
Keep them updated as things progress through the process
VII. Have your house in order
Time kills all deals. The due diligence period is no different.
If you can’t produce the right materials fast enough…
The deal could stall, terms could change, or it could blow up.
Make sure you have all company materials in a sharable folder
Give access to assets as you progress in process (deck, model, cap table, etc.)
Every buyer in the world will ask for a 3-year financial model. It’s important to stay on top of this so you’re not rushing to build one. I wrote an article called How to Build a Killer Financial Plan that will help you do this correctly!
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Focus on building a great company.
This was one of my biggest take aways from the Fireside. If you’re obsessed with selling, you’re obsessed with the wrong thing.
Focus on building a company that could last 100 years. Do that and you’ll have buyers lined up around the corner!
Till next time,
Never say die 🏴☠️
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